I’m not sure if I should be flattered or offended that my eye doctor didn’t think I was pregnant. On the one hand, I guess it means I look small for 21 weeks. On the other, the bitch just thought I was fat. Hmmm……Not cool. I’m being sarcastic of course because I would never ask a women if she was pregnant or assume she was to anyone except maybe my husband or BF. I won’t even ask when it’s obvious. In part it’s because I had a very awesome boss in college who got asked when she was due and she was mortified and I sat there through the whole thing (Oh she wasn’t pregnant. I’m sure you figured that out.). And also in part because of what I have been through. I was never one to pry into other’s personal lives anyway but now I am much more aware of those questions and the impact they have.